I wont help someone drowning while they're standing..
"I cant blah blah, if you dont blah blah"
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no.one.else. is responsible for you!!!! #shutupalready #fixyourownfucks #myideaofhelp vs #yourideaofhelp

Gladly I'll help..pretty much anyone, but when you're upset no one will help you, think about what you're expecting from them.. and what they are anticipating you'll need help with.. things like laundry, NORMAL cleaning, food, maybe shower... you're idea of help is 14plus cat boxes and house of 33+cats

Well I want to be able to help YOU, but it needs to be healthy enough to bring Odin around more, so I CAN help. So as long as that improves in the near future then yes I will help YOU. Noone else is responsible for whether you get your surgery or not. If you choose not to make a change in the house for yourself then you're choosing not to have us around and choosing not to have help and choosing not to have the surgery. People dont want to help with the cats because you've done nothing to change your situation, only add to it. No one wants to help someone who drowns while standing..